Exercising to feel the difference is one of the principles of intuitive eating. I talk with clients about this, especially since I have many runners coming in to see me. Movement often comes up in nutrition counseling, and I like to evaluate whether someone is exercising out of enjoyment or if it seems more like an exercise addiction. The idea of intuitive movement isn’t anything novel, but in today’s diet culture day and age, it becomes more and more important.
I’m not qualified to give exercise prescriptions since I’m not a personal trainer. Instead, the reason it comes up is because I want to know about a client’s relationship to exercise. How do they view it? Why do they do it? Is it enjoyable? What does an exercise addition look like?
What Does Intuitive Movement Look Like?
There are a few pillars to determine if you are exercising out of enjoyment or out of compulsion. To me, the bottom line question to ask is, are you doing this because you want to be doing this, or are you doing it because you feel like you have to be doing it?
If it’s the former, great! You are probably engaging in intuitive movement. If it’s the latter, exercise (or the type of exercise) may not be serving you right now. Now, that doesn’t mean it can’t serve you in the future, but you want to first work on repairing your relationship with exercise.
Exercising Out of Enjoyment Vs. a Compulsion to Exercise
We all know that exercise is good for us, for the most part. It has many positive benefits that I don’t have to list here. But, it can cross into dangerous territory if it becomes an obsession, or a tool to compensate for or validate our eating habits. It can take us away from a mind-body connection that we’ve worked so hard to establish. It can lead to a hyperfocus on calories burned, which can then translate to calories eaten. This post talks about how running can be similar to your relationship with food and how INTENTION matters.
The goal of exercise should never be to burn calories or cancel out food choices. Instead, exercise should be about feeling good. And if you’re interested in more details about balancing intuitive eating and exercise, check out this post.
Exercise should enhance the mind-body connection
Exercise shouldn’t confuse it or dysregulate our mind and body. If your body wants rest, forcing it to exercise is not enhancing the mind-body connection, instead it veers more towards exercise addiction. If your choice of movement is not boosting your endorphins, putting you in a good mood, and enhancing the connection between your mood, mind and body, then it’s probably time to try something else.
However, if you find that exercise helps you be in tune with your body, great!
Some telltale signs of this: You can vary your workout based on how you feel (fatigue, soreness, tightness), you think more clearly after exercise, you feel more like yourself after exercise, and you enjoy the things that go along with exercise (social connection, achieving non-aesthetic goals).
You can look at exercise with flexibility, not rigidity
Just as our food and calorie need vary by the day, so should our exercise. We should consider the “gray” parts and nuance of exercise. It’s far from black and white. There are so many forms of movement available to our bodies, similar to the abundance and variety of food choices. Intuitive movement simply means choosing the one that serves you in the moment. Sometimes, it means choosing none at all. Engaging in a variety of forms of exercise is good for us, rather than relying on one type alone.
Do you feel guilty if you don’t exercise every day? Do you feel anxious and uncomfortable if you’re not moving a certain amount? These are questions worth deciphering and breaking down with a therapist and/or professional.
If we only look at exercise as a vehicle for burning calories or a way to eat more food, then we’re missing nearly all of the benefits of exercise.
Exercise should alleviate mental and physical stress
Exercise is a stressor on our bodies. In some situations, that stress can be a positive thing. In other situations, it can contribute to an already stressed out body and can exacerbate symptoms, both mentally and physically. Compulsive exercise can increase the risk of injury, increase stress hormones, cause more mental anxiety and a poorer mood. While exercise can enhance our mood in some situations, if exercise is the only way to manage our emotions, it can be a stressor in our life.
Signs of overexercise include:
- Extreme fatigue
- Inadequate recovery
- Weaker immune system
- Increased risk of injury
- Poor appetite (–> This can lead to so many problems I will address in a future post)
- Decreased performance
When we exercise out of enjoyment, however, we decrease stress hormones, increase our mood, amp up our immunity and help promote better sleep.
Provides genuine enjoyment and pleasure, rather than providing pain or acting as a form of punishment.
Does your exercise plan change based on what you ate? Are you trying to burn more calories because you ate dessert last night, or more food yesterday in general? Are you eating more food after a longer workout? Do you have no desire to exercise, but you still find yourself pulling up to the gym (and dreading it) or fitting in that run despite the fact that you hate running? These are all signs of overexercise, compulsive exercise, or just exercising out of force and necessity.
On the flip side, a positive relationship with exercise would look more flexible. For example, maybe it looks like trying a new workout with a friend for the social aspect of it and the enjoyment of moving your body in a new way. Or, going to your favorite workout class each week because you really love the teacher and how you feel after. Or, going out for a run by yourself because you value the alone time and running makes you feel happier and stronger.
Exercise is MEANT to be enjoyed, you guys. If you’re not enjoying it, continuing to do it is causing a further disconnect from that mind-body connection.
Exercise is used to rejuvenate the body, not exhaust or deplete it.
Like time with friends, or alone time, exercise fills your cup. It rejuvenates you. At times, it can lead to exhaustion, but chronic exhaustion is a sign that something is not right. If you’re always feeling depleted and not like your old self, it may be time to reevaluate your exercise plan.
For example, many people think running is only worth it if you’re using it to train for something. I wholeheartedly disagree. For me, running is my outlet, my stress relief, my place where I generate ideas and a zest for things. I come out of runs with more creativity than I can find anywhere else. There are so many benefits to exercise when there’s not a rigid plan or ultimate goal in the equation.
Other Signs Of Exercise Addiction and Compulsive Exercise
Do you give up plans with friends and family to stick to an exercise plan? Do you never miss a workout, despite weather, lack of sleep, or feeling sick? If exercise is interfering with significant events and important activities, that is a sign of exercise addiction and compulsive exercise. Similarly, if it is occurring an inappropriate times and despite medical complications and/or injuries, it is likely not appropriate at this time.
While exercise can be a positive thing (see all the reasons above), it can also cause more harm than good. Similar to the idea of, if you’re turning down invitations to eat out with friends and family because you’re anxious about what’s on the menu or can’t stray from your meal plan, that’s a sign of rigid eating. In other words, the opposite of intuitive eating and flexible eating.
Being too rigid with exercise can actually worsen our mood (rather than lifting it up), cause more illness and poorer immunity, lead to more injury and biological problems in our bodies (stress fractures, delayed recovery, extreme fatigue, insomnia and hypothalamic amenorrhea, to name a few).
Is exercise black or white? Will you not even consider a workout if it’s not 45 minutes, an hour, or longer? There are a plethora of benefits of short bursts of exercise and movement. Can you look at exercise in the gray? Like intuitive eating, it’s supposed to be flexible and messy.
If you can’t fathom the idea of a rest day, you are overexercising. Since exercise is a stressor on the body, we need time to recover from the stress induced on the body. Rest is a positive thing. It helps make future workouts stronger, decreases the risk for injury and illness, and improves our mental capacity. Sleep is a great form of restorative rest, it’s how we compile memories and things we learned. Similarly, days off from exercise help make the bones and muscles stronger, as well as flexing our mental strength.
These are just some of the ways to differentiate between exercise and over-exercise.
What specific questions do you have?
What thoughts and feelings does exercise bring up for you?